Helpfulness and the Rarity of 1701

Captain: Hey, I just thought of something.
Most humans, probably, wonder at some point — why was I born? Why under these parents? Why did these parents, of their own will, have sex and create, pass on, a life? And then, why do these parents put me through this? I was supposed to be loved, supposed to be cherished. Why did they bring us into the world at all?

I have a feeling that what Frankie wants to tell Amanda and the others includes this kind of inner conflict too.